My Date update
Thanks to all who gave me encouragement, it really did help.

Anyway, we met at a local pub that I recommended, sort of home turf for me. I was a bit nervous even though we had spent some time together, but always with other people around. Well, I had a great time. We talked for almost three hours: we covered British comedies, movies, Elvis, lightly on politics, some history, just lots of things.  And I felt very at ease. I know I will see him again, and we'll see how things progress. I would be nice if I could break my long dry spell! :))

I did tell my older son that I was on a date. He seems to be OK with it, but did admit that it was a bit strange to think that his mother is dating. I have not told me younger son. He would just go straight to his father, and i really don't want to deal with the questions and innuendo from my ex. Not to mention the jealousy. If we have several dates then I'll say something.

But I'll keep you posted.