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singlewoman ([info]singlewoman) wrote,
@ 2008-05-06 12:06:00

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Help!!

I have a question for my very wise and savvy flist: What do I wear to bed this weekend when I am away with my beau? I am 49, I cannot call him my boyfriend! I normally sleep in a t-shirt but I think that might be too casual. I am not the lacy peignoir type of gal either. Nothing long, I hate the way it bunches up. So... HELP!!

I know this may sound slightly ridiculous, but can I tell you how long it has been since I have been away with a man? Husband doesn't count, so lets just say I was still in college. Yes, I am freaking out a bit, and it is slow at work which is why I am able to post. I really am a bit nervous about this; the whole weekend together thing. It took me long enough to find someone so I don't want to blow it. On the other hand, I would rather find out now before I have much invested if things are not going to work out.

OK, time to  do some deep breathing exercises then walk the parking lot during lunch to burn off energy.


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[info]brianslave68
2008-05-06 11:23 am UTC (link)
Maybe get a simple nightie that comes down to your knees? That's not too casual or too lacy. I have a couple of those that I put on when I get up in the morning. Yes, I sleep nekkid!

Good luck this weekend and let us know how it goes!

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 12:33 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, I was thinking just a simple nightie, but nothing too frilly. So not me! On the other hand, he has seen me nekkid, so why not a t-shirt? I think maybe I'll take both and see how things go. I hope to have pics on Sunday. Then I'll just have to figure out how to post them!

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[info]happier_bunny
2008-05-06 11:55 am UTC (link)
There's some really cute short pjs out there now...maybe you'd be comfortable in that...or a short nightie?

Good luck and have fun! Where are you going?

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 12:36 pm UTC (link)
We are going to New Hope, PA. A very cute little town, lots of antiques. I hope to have pics on Sunday and will give full, or almost full, details!

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[info]zaipixie
2008-05-06 11:56 am UTC (link)
Tank top? The Wife beater kinds with a "Wrestles back" I don't know what it's called in English. I'll see if I can scurry up some pics for ya. That in combination with a nice pair of boxerbriefs for women. Sexy, but yet understated enough to be considered casual. ;)

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[info]zaipixie
2008-05-06 12:11 pm UTC (link)
Something like this: http://media.redcatsnordic.com/ellos/images/products/large/90-44/90-4439.jpg

Paired with something like this;
http://www.ellos.se/misc/ProductZoom.aspx?ImageSource=ells_1046501.jpg

Have fun!

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 12:37 pm UTC (link)
These are really cute! I will have to look for something like that. Victoria's Secret here I come.

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[info]zaipixie
2008-05-06 12:39 pm UTC (link)
Cute, functional and still sexy! You can't ask for much more. ;)

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[info]kata_ny
2008-05-06 12:26 pm UTC (link)
uhm pjamas with short legged bottoms...there are some really nice girly ones...

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 12:42 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, I was thinking shortie pjs or nightie. I'll let you know, thanks!

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[info]kata_ny
2008-05-06 12:45 pm UTC (link)
either way you will look wonderful
have fun my Dear!!

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[info]whatthefuckbenj
2008-05-06 12:26 pm UTC (link)
I don't think you should pick something that won't let you sleep at night and you don't feel comfortable with. I'd say go with a t-shirt you usually sleep in (maybe not the trashiest one ^^) because he'll end up seeing you in that anyway sooner or later ;)

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 12:45 pm UTC (link)
Somehow I don't think my "It sucks to be me" tshirt would be the right one! But I do have a couple of plain ones. I think I might try to find a nightie or shortie pjs to have, just in case. He has seen me nekkid, so a tshirt shouldn't really matter, right?

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[info]vamphile
2008-05-06 02:03 pm UTC (link)
a lot of guys have a thing for women in the guys shirt, sexy, casual, comfortable.

the other option is something t-shirt-like but not, ie, a little frill or flutter but still cotton knit rather than silk or satin.

i really wish i could help you more but i'm usually kicking them to the door and letting my dogs back in the bedroom by the time i've gotten to thinking about what to sleep in.

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 07:43 pm UTC (link)
Snort! You crack me up. I hadn't thought about his tshirt, that has possibilities. I agree that cotton is the way to go. Who knows, maybe we'll just be nekkid and this will all be moot.

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[info]vamphile
2008-05-06 02:14 pm UTC (link)
something along these lines, but you know, without the insanely slutty posing.

i don't know what size you are but um... SUN.


although i still vote for his shirt.

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 07:45 pm UTC (link)
What if I want to pose slutty?! Yeah, I really like his t-shirt the best.

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[info]vamphile
2008-05-06 07:49 pm UTC (link)
far be it from me to get in the way of your aspiration to pose slutty, i'm just saying, when i'm wearing cotton PJ's this is not how I sit and eat my cereal.

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[info]besamislabios
2008-05-06 02:19 pm UTC (link)
I wish I could help you but I'm a fashion disaster even in bed, hehehe.

I hope you have a great time and enjoy yourself. :D

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 07:48 pm UTC (link)
I'm a fashion disaster even in bed Snort! Too funny. Well, I will tell everyone all about it on Sunday.

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[info]chrisyeap
2008-05-06 05:24 pm UTC (link)
umm.... you need clothes???

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[info]singlewoman
2008-05-06 07:46 pm UTC (link)
Well, just in case! This is my first time spending the night with him so I just don't know. Vamp suggested his tshirt which sounds good to me.

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[info]chrisyeap
2008-05-06 10:59 pm UTC (link)
lol! I would definitely go with something of his - whether it's his shirt or t-shirt. that's sexy and would preferably smell of him!

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[info]court1429
2008-05-06 11:45 pm UTC (link)
I'm thinking a tank or wife beater and a pair of sleep pants or sleep shorts. I'm assuming this is more for the hanging out in the room comfortably than actual sleeping. For that, I'm assuming naked will be the order of the day. Uh, night. Have a great time! We'll be waiting for a report. ;)

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